Injury
Break, rehab, watching from the stands.
You're sidelined and worried about falling behind. You're still part of the team, even when you aren't playing. You get a say in how much contact feels right for you.
What can help you right now
- 1Get any new or unexamined injury checked by a doctor before planning training load or a return to play. Stick to medical advice when it comes to load and rehab. This page does not clear you for training.
- 2Pick a way to stay in touch with the team that fits right now: a text, dropping by, or a quick chat. You don't have to watch every single session.
- 3Tell someone you trust what's bothering you – like being benched or worrying about your role. You don't have to pretend everything's fine.
Here's what that can look like in handball
You want to head down to the sports hall, but watching from the sidelines is really frustrating. Agree to drop by briefly and then head off. That doesn't mean you're letting the team down.
For your next training session
Talk to the specialist treating you about what rehab goal is safe and sensible right now. A mental goal might simply be writing down questions for the next phase, not rushing your return.
How you can bring it up
'I'd like to stay connected with the team, but not watch every session from the sidelines. What would work for both of us?'
Things you don't have to deal with alone
Don't compare your rehab to anyone else's. If the pressure is getting in the way of your day-to-day life, get help finding qualified support.
If you want to keep working on this
Suitable Mental Hacks
Methods and boundaries of these tips
The linked methods outline general approaches. They don't prove that these exact steps will work for you. These tips are ideas to try out, not a guarantee of better performance or more minutes.
Adolescent development and stress
ModerateUnderstanding adolescent behaviour and recognising warning signs of overload.
Process and goal setting
StrongDirect attention and motivation towards what is within one's control.
Additional expert review is still pending for this situation.